This past Saturday, Independence Day marked 73 years of freedom from British rule and the establishment of a free and independent India .On 15th August, every year the country celebrates freedom, we got our fundamental rights.
Our ancestors and forefathers sacrificed their lives to free our nation. It took years of hardship, struggles and painful sufferings to be called Independent nation. Okay, just tell me one thing can you imagine the state of mind and hardships of those freedom fighters or the normal people who went through those situation? No, Right?? Are we really utilizing their sacrifice? Are you really free or independent?? Yeah take your time and answer me, are you really free, from our society, relatives, your own past or responsibilities. So you got the answer, didn’t you?
Independence can help increase your self-value and self-esteem, more. So I’m here just to remind, in that era our Freedom fighters gave freedom to our country by fighting with those British rulers, but now you have to fight for your freedom, your independence.. no one is going to fight for you. I will just remind you some of our rights…which can make you independent and free..!! Aaahh Still thinking about right to equality, freedom of religion blah blah… No, my friend I am talking about rights which are not in our syllabus..!!
“Be yourself not your idea of what you think somebody else’s idea of yourself should be.”
— Henry David Thoreau
Knowing yourself and being happy is obviously one and the same thing. We are forced to hide our feelings since and molded according to others..how they want us to be..Rather than who we are, which can cut off one’s feeling. If you know your strength and weakness, just accept it …that’s what you are and be that who you are. Knowing your desires, dreams and fears will help you in finding mental peace, and achieving your targets and I am damn sure you will find a way to be happy and will help you in empathizing with others.
“Don’t be confused between what people say you are and who you know you are.”
“You create more space in your life when you turn your excess baggage to garbage.”
― Chinonye J. Chidolue
Stop being stuck, whether it’s past or toxic people. These both are like garbage only. We walk around with our hurts from the past and manipulating peoples, weighing us down. It’s a vicious circle and once you’re trapped, you forget to live your life and soon end up regretting and doubting yourself, being sad peep all the time. So Please, don’t do that. Say bye bye to those shitty memories and toxic people before they destroy you, get back to your life.
“Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow”.
– Albert Einstein
“It’s not about making the right choice.
It’s about making a choice and making it right.”
― J.R. Rim
Start making your own decisions, Stop relying on others to do things for you, realize no one is as good as you for taking your own decisions for your help, you have to trust yourself and be more confident. Take responsibility for the things what are happening to you and what will happen to you and It’s better to trust your intuition and heart rather than relying on others..!! right
“The excitement of dreams coming true is beyond the description of words.”
― Lailah Gifty Akita
Everybody has some dreams but some of us don’t know how to achieve it..from where to start, scared of failure..!! but you have to believe in yourself . Every dream is achievable no matter how big or impossible it seems. You have right to fulfill every single dream of any size. Cheers you are gonna achieve it..!! Just stay focused in working on accomplishing the same and have some patience and most important thing you are doing this for your own self So be ready to compromise whenever needed but it does not mean compromising your happiness.
“Everyday is an opportunity to realize your dreams.”
― Lailah Gifty Akita
“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
― David Richo
Life is full of ups and downs. If you are happy keep it but if you are in pain then feel it and release it..!! In order to heal properly, first you must fall ill and then reset, restart and realign..They say time heals everything like broken ribs and that means healing takes time..so try changing things if possible, if not then just accept it as it is and note one thing, Do not go to same thing what caused that wound.
“Dare to love yourself
as if you were a rainbow
with gold at both ends.”
― Author-Poet Aberjhan
It’s better to love yourself rather than being loved..fill yourself with good things only like good food, good thought, good habits or good care. Be self sufficient and be kind to yourself, trust me it will never hurt you. By self love you know how it feels to be loved and at the same time you become someone who loves..isn’t it amazing..!! you automatically feel worthy and independent and it’s necessary.
“If you have the ability to love, love yourself first.”
― Charles Bukowski
Let’s take a pledge to set
our country us free from any type of dependency. So this Independence day let us all join hands to make country us a better person, let’s create “THE NEW INDIA” and “NEW US”.